There are many things couples over 50 can do to keep their sex life exciting as to not allow boredom to transform their lives, making them the king and queen of boredom.
Stay Active as Much as Possible
If one partner is aroused and one isn’t it could be as simple as spending a little more time getting the other spouse excited in order for the feeling to be mutual. As we get older ones sexual appetite can change as well as our interests in sex. There are a few things than can be done to bring back the fire such as the following;
It’s okay to arouse your partner by performing oral sex much like you used to keep the fire in the relationship.
When one partner is aroused, make the sacrifice if you aren’t and take care of their needs.
Encourage them to take care of your needs when you feel as if YOU are aroused and they aren’t.
Masturbating together is also a quick, exertion free way of pleasing yourselves for a quick release.
And speaking of quick, quickies can be nice and sweet yet also fulfilling for both partners.
It’s also okay to help your partner while they masturbate so if you feel the urge to suck him when he gets really hot or he is turned on by kissing, go ahead and make his day.
The same goes for the other partner, if she likes her nipples sucked while she tosses her salad, go ahead and make HER day.
Try Other Things
There may be room for a soft blindfold, and definitely lube up. Lubricants help where some women lose lots of moisture after menopause.

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